You will have only one true mother. I understand this. That bond and relationship is a strong one. Whether you think you have a good or bad one... She's still yours and she is doing her best. The threat of losing mine killed me! It's a loss I can imagine is like no other and one I'm never going to be ready for.
Recently my mom had a surgery. Everything went well and she is home now. But today she made me promise not to let her go through that again. How can I not support something that will save her, yet how can I not respect her wishes. After, I threw a fit telling her I would not lose her, I came to my senses. I gave her what she needed... My promise to support her NO when she needed me to! It's hard. I depended on her for everything and now she depends on us. Roles reverse! Don't get me wrong, I want to be here for her. However, realizing your super mom is only human and fragile can be life altering. But no matter what I love and respect her. I'll support her when she needs me to make her NO clear and I'll encourage her when that's needed. Overall, I'm just thankful I still have her. I want to keep her for a while longer. So if your reading this! Please pray! Or send your positive vibes this way.
